A Compelling Testimony: Maintaining a Disciplined Walk, Christlike Character, and Godly Relationships as God's Servant

Ses s i on 5: Cu l t i vat i ng Our Charac ter : The Outward Di sc i p l i nes 185

d. Solitude is avoiding the “sacrifice of fools,” that is, unnecessary empty phrases and repetitions, heaped up religious talk in spiritual settings. (1) Eccles. 5.2 – Be not rash with your mouth, nor let your heart be hasty to utter a word before God, for God is in heaven and you are on earth. Therefore let your words be few. (2) Matt. 6.7 – And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. e. Solitude is recognizing the ongoing spiritual need for the bridling of the tongue in a purposeful and formal way. (1) Prov. 10.19 – When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent. (2) James 3.2 – For we all stumble in many ways, and if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body.

B. The Personal Dimensions: solitude involves the setting aside of necessary time to be silent and in retreat before the presence of God for the sake of renewal and direction.

1. We must set aside personal time to be quiet (silent) before the Lord, Eccles. 5.2.

2. We must strive to be alone from the crowds for rest and refreshment in the presence of God, Mark 6.31 – And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat.