Healing the Wounds of Trauma
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Front Matter
2
About this Book
2
The Goals of This Book
5
How This Book Came About
6
How to Use This Book
8
About the Lessons
8
Preparing for the Sessions
9
Related Trauma Healing Resources
10
Lesson 1
12
If God Loves Us, Why Do We Suffer?
12
1. The Story of Pastor Mark
12
2. When We Are Suffering, What Do We Need to Remember about God’s Character?
13
3. What Is the Origin of Suffering in the World?
16
4. How Does God Use Suffering?
17
5. Why Is It Difficult to Believe in God’s Goodness when We Suffer?
18
Lesson 2
21
How Can the Wounds of Our Hearts Be Healed?
21
1. The Story of John Mba
21
2. What Is a Wound of the Heart?
22
3. What Does the Bible Teach Us about How to Handle Our Feelings?
25
4. How Can We Help Someone Heal from the Wounds of Their Heart?
26
Lesson 3
31
What Happens When Someone Is Grieving?
31
1. The Story of Pastor Ndri
31
2. What Is Grieving?
32
3. How Can We Grieve in a Way that Brings Healing?
33
4. What Can Make Grieving More Difficult?
35
5. How Can We Help Those Who Are Grieving?
38
Lesson 4
43
How Can We Help Children Who Have Experienced Bad Things?
43
1. The Story of Kasi
43
2. How Do Children Who Have Experienced Bad Things Behave?
45
3. How Do We Help Children Like Kasi?
47
4. How Can We Help Child Soldiers?
51
Lesson 5
53
How Can We Help Someone Who has Been Raped?
53
1. Two Stories on Rape
53
2. What Is Rape?
56
3. What Are the Effects of Rape?
56
4. How Can We Help Someone Who Has Been Raped?
58
5. What about Children Born Out of Rape?
61
6. How Can We Help Rapists?
62
Lesson 6
63
How Can a Church Minister in the Midst of HIV and AIDS?
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1. Didier and Mary’s Story
63
2. What Do You Know about HIV and AIDS?
64
3. What Are Some False Beliefs that Increase the Spread of HIV?
65
4. What Are Some Practices that Increase the Spread of HIV?
66
5. How Can We Teach Children about Sex, HIV, and AIDS?
67
6. How Can the Church Help a Person Living with HIV or AIDS?
68
Answers to the Quiz
72
Lesson 7
73
Caring for the Caregiver
73
1. The Overloaded Pastor
73
2. How Can We Know If a Caregiver Is Overloaded?
74
3. Why Is It Difficult to Be a Caregiver?
75
4. How Can Caregivers Take Care of Themselves?
77
Lesson 8
80
Response: Taking Your Pain to the Cross
80
1. Identify the Wounds of Your Heart
81
2. Bring Your Wounds and Pain to Jesus
83
3. Share the Good Things God Has Done
84
Lesson 9
85
How Can We Forgive Others?
85
1. Real and Fake Forgiveness
85
2. Forgiveness Is Not . . .
86
3. What Is Forgiveness?
86
4. Why Does God Want Us to Forgive Other People?
88
5. What If We Are the Ones Who Have Caused the Offense?
90
About This Book
2
The Goals of This Book
5
How This Book Came About
6
How to Use This Book
8
Lesson 1
12
If God Loves Us, Why Do We Suffer?
12
Lesson 2
21
How Can the Wounds of Our Hearts Be Healed?
21
Lesson 3
32
What Happens When Someone Is Grieving?
32
Lesson 4
43
How Can We Help Children Who Have Experienced Bad Things?
43
Lesson 5
50
How Can We Help Someone Who Has Been Raped?
50
Lesson 6A
60
Domestic Abuse
60
Lesson 6B
69
Suicide
69
Lesson 6C
76
Addictions
76
Lesson 7
83
Caring for the Caregiver
83
Lesson 8
90
Response: Taking Your Pain to the Cross
90
Lesson 9
95
How Can We Forgive Others?
95
Lesson 10
102
How Can We Live as Christians in the Midst of Conflict?
102
Lesson 11
113
Looking Ahead
113
Forgiveness Ceremony
120
Recommended Readings
123
Acknowledgements
124
About the Authors
125
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