Practicing Christian Leadership, Mentor's Guide, MG11

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“That’s Going Too Far!”

In a men’s Bible study in church, a group of brothers has genuine concerns about the behavior and conduct of a brother, Larry, who also is a member of the church. The concern focuses on what is perceived by all as to Larry’s drinking habits. No one has actually said anything to him about it, but much discussion has gone on behind the scenes. During a study on Christlike character, one of the brothers mentions to Larry (in the presence of the other men of the study group) his concerns about Larry’s drinking habits. Although it was said in love and truth, Larry is deeply offended by the entire episode, and before he leaves the room (and the church!) he blurts out, “You guys are such hypocrites! I don’t mind you talking to me about my religion and all, but being so nosy to intrude into my private affairs, well, that’s going too far!” Was Larry right? In a Sunday School discussion on the nature of backslidden Christians, a dear sister suggests that once a person turns their back on the Lord, it is not possible to bring them back again. She then turns in her Bible to Hebrews 10 and says, “Look at what the Word says. In Hebrews 10.26-27 it reads that ‘For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, [27] but a fearful expectation of judgment, and a fury of fire that will consume the adversaries.’ See? I told you! This verse says that if we continue to sin, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, only a fearful judgment.” Some believe she is interpreting the text correctly, while many suggest that she is not understanding the text appropriately. How do you understand this, i.e., the relationship between restoration and one’s eternal salvation? Once Gone, Always Gone

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