Healing the Wounds of Trauma

Forgiveness sets us free from the chains of bitterness

C. Forgiveness shows that we understand Christ’s sacrifice and our salvation.

When we understand howmuch we have offended God by our sinful- ness, and how Jesus offered himself for our forgiveness even before we repented (1 Jn 4.10), any offense we have experienced will seem small. We will want to extend that same forgiveness to others (Eph 4.32; Mt 18.21–35).

D. Forgiveness allows us to be reconciled with those who have offended us.

Until we forgive those who have offended us, our relationship with them will suffer. Forgiveness makes it possible for our relationship with them to be restored. Full restoration, however, requires repen- tance and forgiveness by both parties.

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How Can We Forgive Others?